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“Is she your dream girl?”


Dating isn’t easy. For a lot of men out there, it can be hard to find a woman to spend their time with. Perhaps they work a lot of hours and don’t want to have an inter-office romance. Maybe they aren’t the type to go out to bars to meet women, or maybe they just can’t meet the right kind of women. For men seeking an alternative lady, it can be even more difficult to meet someone. Finding a woman who is into the same types of activities (both extracurricular and not) is extremely important. We’re not just talking about relationships, either. Sometimes it’s hard even to find a girl for tonight, let alone for the rest of your life. No matter what kind of romance you’re interested in, it all starts the same way, meeting a girl.

In order to meet the right kind of girl for you, you have to put yourself out there. She’s not going to simply fall into your lap (and if she does, let the rest of us know how you swung that). You can meet her almost anywhere but there are some places that will increase your chances. You’re not going to go to the playground to meet a woman who doesn’t have kids. Similarly, you’re not going to meet a girl who likes having an active night life at an AA meeting. To meet the right kind of girl, you have to put yourself in the right kind of place.

Go Online

“You may never know – she is waiting for you online”


One of the best resources you have when it comes to meeting women is the Internet. You don’t have to be comfortable with online dating but a good BDSM site can be the best place to visit when you’re on the prowl. There are alternative dating sites made specifically for people who are into living an alternative lifestyle and trying to meet alternative partners. They are safe spaces for you to put yourself out there and try to meet someone. Are there alternative dating site scams? Sure, but don’t let that scare you off. Mostly, sites like that are geared toward people who don’t really know what it means to be interested in an alt lifestyle. They advertise this risky, exciting dating arena but don’t really cater to an actual connection. True alt sites are there to help you find someone who’s into the same kind of kink that you are or that you’re looking to experiment with. Don’t fret, good BDSM sites, like BDSM.com do exist. You can check the rating of the site at thekinkyfactory.com, after reading the website review, make your choice.

Once you get on there and start to build your profile, be honest. Alt girls are open, both with their way of thinking and their sexuality. On an alt site, there is an unspoken bond of trust created between members. They expect that those who join are really looking for an alternative connection. That being said, the alternative lifestyle is not unfamiliar with ridicule. If an alt girl feels like you’re being dishonest or judgmental, don’t be surprised if she shuts you down before you even have a chance.

Getting Out There

“Find them at a local band show or at a bar”


If you’re still unsure about this whole Internet dating thing, you can still use the web to find good places to meet alt girls in person. The best thing to look for is a show featuring local bands. If it’s free, it is definitely a good horse to bet on. It’s not that alternative chicks are cheap; they just don’t want to waste their money on tickets when they plan on wasting it on booze. There is something to be said for originality and honesty. (Sensing a theme here?)

Alt girls are really into the natural, uncompromised way of living; meaning, they like their music without auto tune. Even if you can’t be guaranteed to meet a girl at every show, knowing the local music scene is a great way to get into circles that are more likely to have alt girls in them. An alt girl will respect your knowledge and you can use that to catch her attention. If she really digs a band and you can actually talk to her about it without pulling it out of your ass, you’re going to impress her, plain and simple.

You can also look for local art shows. Alt girls are into self-expression and these are some of the best places to find it. That’s why they dye their hair, pierce themselves and get inked up. The world is full of people who bottle themselves up and pretend to feel things and like things that make them more acceptable to society. These girls hate that and they love anything that spits in the face of that ridiculous construct. Local art shows tend to be more edgy and authentic than your typical gallery show. Bigger galleries have donors to pander to and newspapers to seduce to get their events out there and ensure that they are well funded. The smaller galleries can afford to put on shows that walk the line and even blatantly cross it. Anything that crosses the line is sure to attract the attention of alt girls. They love to witness people being real and speaking out about the way that they view the world. They might also get a kick out of the discomfort that that causes some people. They’ll be there, you just have to man up and go find them.

Get to Drinking

“A little bit of drinking is never wrong”

When it’s time to hit up the bars, don’t go to the ones on campus that are playing music so loud it vibrates your car as you drive by. This isn’t her kind of music, these aren’t her kind of people, and those are not the kinds of prices she wants to pay for her drinks. Your best bet is to go to a dive bar. You want a bar that has poor lighting, dirty cheap alcohol, and may or may not look closed when you get there. When it’s time to relax, alt girls like to go places where they feel accepted and they don’t have to defend themselves to anyone. Don’t confuse this with hiding out, they’ll stand up for their looks and their beliefs, but alt girls need to kick their feet up sometimes. The best thing about going to a dive bar is that there are fewer people, which means less competition.

So whether you’re hitting on an alt girl at a bar, a show, or on one of those good BDSM dating sites, just remember why you’re looking for her in the first place. You want a girl who doesn’t play games. You want a girl who is not afraid of her body or how it looks. You want a girl who isn’t into all of that corporate bullshit. You want someone honest and hot, playful and fun, and, most of all, someone who is into the same kind of shit you are. That’s why you want an alt girl. Get out to those bars and local scenes (don’t forget about festivals and farmers markets) and give it a shot. The more places you go that are popular with the alternative scene, the more likely you are to find your next fling. Don’t be afraid of what you want; go out and get her.

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Technology has played a big part in each of our lives nowadays, especially on the kids’. With the boom of the different kinds of technology and the advent of smart and android phones and the kids’ accessibility to these, you can no longer be sure whether or not these bring more good than harm to them. A phone working on an Android operating system may merely just be a communication gadget for you. Nonetheless, this could mean a superb entertainment for kids especially when they get caught up in a seemingly drab situation such as traffic jam or perhaps waiting for the queue at the Pedia’s office. Amongst the array of android applications, there are specifically 3 which are considered best for the kids.

Spaghetti Marshmallows

When you choose an Android application for your child, be certain that this is something that will help elicit and foster one’s creativity and the Spaghetti Marshmallows app best suits this request. In this game, the child is allowed to come up with the most designs as possible given an unlimited supply of spaghetti. The marshmallows serve as the anchor to the spaghetti strings. The main goal of this game is to set the marshmallow on a specific spot where it should be. The fiddling part is that once the connection is unstable, the spaghetti strings will collapse and marshmallows would topple and hungry frogs are waiting to nibble these.

Dropwords

“An excellent game for the kids”

“An excellent game for the kids”

Another highly educational Android app for kids is Dropwords. Dropwords is composed of letter blocks from which kids can form 3-letter words or more. However, the letters making up the word must be adjacent to each other for the blocks to drop otherwise these won’t. The tricky part of the game is that the letter blocks keep on shuffle, making it difficult for the player to form a certain word. Thus, one must learn to work under time pressure to be able to come up as many words as possible. Dropwords has definitely been a brain twister that every bored kid would love to play every time.

Popmath

“Fall in love with Math”

“Fall in love with Math”

Popmath is the training ground for future math wizards. Who loves math? Sure enough, not everyone does. With Popmath, the kids get to do simple to difficult math by popping colorful balloons. All they have to do is to select those balloons which make up the equation. Once the answer is correct the balloons will automatically pop. After clearing up a level, the player has the option to go a notch higher by playing a more difficult level or play as is.
There are certainly hundreds of Android applications to choose from. Parents, however, should just not be after the fun and entertainment the app brings but also its capacity to sharpen a child’s mind by honing one’s creativity, memory and mathematical faculties.

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“Finding your love online”

“Finding your love online”

Nightclubs and bars are a good watering hole if you are looking for hot women. However, if you are very serious to find a soul mate, these could mean huge futile expense. With the advancement of global communication technology in today’s world, online dating has proved to be an effective tool in starting a serious relationship over the traditional night clubbing and bar hopping.

There are several disadvantages in this conventional style as follows:

Both the people and music in bars pose a loud environment and create an atmosphere unsuitable for a clear conversation.
It takes a lot of spending on drinks and some more free drinks for the girls. Moreover, a fortune may be spent on cover charges.
Most of the girls go bar hopping simply for fun, some drinks and dancing and they are usually not open to the idea of sitting down for a conversation.
The defenses of the ladies are up and they would not just trust any men.
Competition is very high in nightclubs and bars.
It may mean a waste of time as the ladies may not even be single at all.

Frequent visits to bars and nightclubs definitely bring about lots of fun for men with all the hot women they can find, dance with, and drink with, as they listen to live music. The problem now lies in the intention of finding a perfect mate. At present, internet dating has proven to do well and good for men looking for a soul mate.

“Meet women online”

“Meet women online”

Online dating often means success in keeping count of single women. These real single ladies you will find on dating sites are most likely serious in finding a soul mate. Both parties will benefit from the atmosphere it creates which is a lot different from the experience in nightclubs. There are no distracting disc jockeys and live bands that the goal is best achieved. Fewer expenses are entailed for men since there comes no need to buy the ladies some drinks or spend for dinner just to buy peace and quiet for a nice and clear conversation. This is if the man is even lucky enough to persuade the girl.

Nothing beats online dating where one just has to make use of words carefully thought of, charm and some good profile photos of him. At least it would take just these things for a good first impression with a hope for the slightest attraction that may be thrown his way from the other end of the internet connection.

While a trust may be an issue in dating women online, it has been observed that these singles are able to detect scam signals and are likewise knowledgeable of self protection from scammers. These women are often honestly and very willing to start out a meaningful relationship and not what most of the men believe.

Go online now and date the girls or opt to invest in an online membership which guarantees less expense than nightclubs and bars offer. No more getting up in bars and costly nightclub visits just to find yourself ending up alone going home.

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Eating the right kind of food can lead to better sex. A lot of people believe that to be true, but does eating the right food really contributes to better sex? According to experts, the chemistry of the brain affects your sex drive both physically and mentally. When some chemicals in the brain are deficient, your sex drive may be reduced.

“Breakfast - The best way to start a day”

“Breakfast – The best way to start a day”

Fortunately, these deficiencies can be dealt with by eating the right kind of food. Here are some of the things to keep in mind when it comes to proper eating for better sex:
Eat lean proteins when you lack libido. The lack of libido may be caused by low levels of dopamine. Lean proteins can improve the body’s ability to make more dopamine.
Eat whole grains and foods that are high in fiber if you are not able to achieve orgasm and you seem anxious about lovemaking. Your gamma aminobutyric acid or GABA may not be balanced, and regulating it can be done by taking in whole grains and high-fiber food.
Issues pertaining to arousal may be due to low levels of acetylcholine in the brain. This can be fixed by eating eggs, legumes, and whole grains. These foods help in the production of acetylcholine.
There are many other foods that are known as sex boosters. Here are some of them:
Fish – Salmon, trout, and mackerel have omega-3 fatty acids that can help enhance blood circulation all throughout your body.
Nuts – Essential fatty acids are found in nuts and they keep your brain alert. Women are known to be aroused by almonds. Nuts can also boost testosterone in men.
Apples – Phenylethylamine (PEA) is found in apples. It gives you the feeling of excitement. Apart from apples, you can also find PEA in chocolates and cheese. In fact, there is more PEA in chocolates than in apples and even more in peas.
Avocado – The fruit has Vitamin B6, and this increases potassium and testosterone. It also regulates your thyroid gland. These elements can improve your libido.
Apart from eating the foods mentioned above, it is also important to have enough sleep. Tryptophan, the amino acid that promotes sleep, is found in bananas and cottage cheese. Adding them to your diet also boosts your drive for sex.

“Eat bananas”

“Eat bananas”

Lack of libido can also be attributed to stress. A low energy state can compromise your sex life. Eating foods that are high in magnesium, zinc, and Vitamin B is important. Spinach, eggs, and pine fruits are all good sources of nutrients needed by the body to produce energy.
Having great sex can keep you happy. Thus, you have to pay attention to your diet and modify it a bit for you to have better sex.

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In the last few years we have all witnessed an immense fluctuation in the global market. The scare of recession in the big players of the world shocked most of us and somehow unconsciously discouraged both big and small investors from investing their hard earned money to earn. Questions arise from time to time as to which or what to invest in during times where the economy hits its bottom in the last recent years. The answer of investing in real estate may not come as inviting as the big profits you may be offered to claim in stocks, but considering the low risk of loss in investing in something tactile, you will know you will be on better grounds with real estate than investing your money anywhere else during times like these. Let this article walk you through the reasons why investing in real estate is always a good bet.

Real Estate Is a Need

“The best investment in today’s time”

“The best investment in today’s time”

Look around you, if you have not been paying attention 90-95% of the world’s population needs shelter. With the population booming year after year, your clients are practically endless and so having mentioned that thought, the opportunity of investing in housing provision is one of the best moves you’ll ever have to make.

Real Estate Knows No Boundaries

“Investing in your dream house is the right choice”

“Investing in your dream house is the right choice”

Real Estate does not necessarily mean a “House and Lot” package alone. Go ahead and invest in real estate but keep in mind to invest only on what you need or maybe of use to you personally or for business. You can purchase a condominium or apartment unit if you do not need much leg room or you have to be residing somewhere within a busy city take note that even the resale values of these properties appreciate year after year, or buy a few hectares of raw land if you happen to love farming and dreams of having a business someday. The possibilities of owning or investing in real estate are endless and given the proper attention to what you’ve invested in, you will be reaping rewards in no time.
The bottom line here is investing in anything is a risk every investor should be willing to take but if you’re one of the smart ones, of course you will consider the risks and the better promises of return before you take the leap. Investing in real estate is one of the few stable markets you can ever get into, given the keen eye for a good location, the heart to be happy to provide dream homes to your clients and the mind to get your money earning, you will know you just bought your ticket to riches.

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“Does your boss like you?”

“Does your boss like you?”

There’s nothing more frustrating than going to work every day anticipating the thought that your boss can (and probably will) single you out for every bit of error you unintentionally make—or is that just your imagination? For the Nth time you wonder, is there still something you can do to turn things around? A lot actually. No matter what the situation is in your office, as long as you’re willing, you can start again from square one, turn a new leaf, and get your boss to love your attitude. Keep on reading to find out three different ways of doing it.

Pay Attention

It’s 2:00 in the afternoon and all you can do is figure out if there’s any way you can go unnoticed if you scoot under your table and doze off for just ten minutes. All of a sudden your entire department is called in for a quick emergency meeting. You make a silent groan knowing this could stretch on for hours. Sigh.
Snap out of it. Quit complaining. Freshen yourself up. Jog in place. Grab a cup of coffee on your way to your boss’ office. If you want to make an impression, start by letting them know that you mean business when they do. Pay attention. So when you smile and nod in agreement it would actually mean you understood. When you’re on the same page as your boss, everything just becomes a little bit easier.

Own Up To Your Mistake—and Make Up For It

“Admit to your mistake and never do it again”

“Admit to your mistake and never do it again”

There’s nothing more infuriating for a boss than to see his subordinates pointing fingers when he very well knows whose fault it is. So the next time you try to blame it on others, think again. It’s more noble to own up to your own disappointments than to plant it on somebody else’s cubicle. If a project assigned to you didn’t turn out as planned, take responsibility and beat it to your boss before he can even bring it up himself. You’ll get more admiration than hatred for this, believe us. Just don’t make a habit of doing this, and make sure you’ll knock their socks off on the next project—as promised.

Don’t Put Too Much On Your Plate

Know what’s disappointing? Committing to too many things all at once, then having to make excuses that you’re doing too much if you missed a deadline. But let’s be honest here. More often than not, it isn’t even your fault that you’re doing so much all at once. But the trick is in letting your boss know that you’re already swamped with too many deadlines, which means you have to take it slow on the others he has just freshly piled on your desk. Be honest and Set expectations. Don’t just smile and nod again because you’re intimidated by his presence. Get used to thinking that you’re equals when it comes to certain aspects of work—and that includes knowing when to speak up. You want to gain his approval, not kill yourself in the process.
In the end, it all boils down to whom your boss can communicate with well enough to trust. Let him know you see each other eye to eye, that you’re not just another run of the mill employee. It isn’t always about sucking up to your superior; it’s an essential career move if you want to climb up the corporate ladder. Don’t you let yourself forget, so you won’t have such a hard time getting your boss to love you instantly.

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